Friendship Quotes

by Chet 16. May 2010 07:04

True Friendship

"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 – 1882)

"A friend loves at all times, And a brother is born for adversity."
- Solomon - Proverbs 17:17

"One loyal friend is worth ten thousand relatives."
- Euripides, Greek playwright

"Never injure a friend, even in jest."
- Cicero, Roman Philosopher 106BC – 43BC

"A true friend stabs you in the front."
- Oscar Wilde

"Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light."
- Helen Keller

"Be slow in choosing your friends; slower in changing."
-Benjamin Franklin

"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends."
- Martin Luther King Jr.

"Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up.”
-Solomon – Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

“What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies.”

-Aristotle

"A friend is one who knows us, but loves us anyway."
-Jerome Cummings

"You only meet your once in a lifetime friend... once in a lifetime."
-The Little Rascals

"...no man is useless while he has a friend."
-Robert Louis Stevenson

"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five real friends, then you've had a great life."
- Lee Iacocca

It is not what you give your friend, but what you are willing to give him that determines the quality of friendship.
- Mary Dixon Thayer

"A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother."
- Solomon  - Proverbs 18:24

“Greater Love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.
YOU are MY friends…”
- Jesus, John 15:13-14a

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Quotes | Teaching | Youth

Should I even ask Him?

by Chet 28. August 2009 06:39

Prayer has been all over my map this year. In teaching, in being taught, in reading, and even in applying, trying, failing, and succeeding. I was remided yesterday about how "informal" we can be with God in terms of the whole "process," but how much He just loves to hear from us and also, how much he longs to answer us.

At the beginning of September, we start a new Sunday School "year" at our church. Being the team leader for that ministry has put me into a number of situations, but the one I love the most is raising up new leaders into spots of ministry that are just right for them. While I say that, I also love the opportunity to watch these people be raised up by others... it's a wonderful opportunity to watch miracles in action. This event yesterday showed me both sides of this, how prayer fit in, and how wonderful God is to us.

One of our preschool classes (the one my son is in, it so happens) has been in need of a helper for the teacher. It's not at all that Kelley (their teacher) can't handle them - she does an excellent job at that - but we feel with any age of kids, it's just best to have a couple adults in their - for a whole number of different reasons. Kelley was one we were able to pray in and raise up about a year ago, I think... she was hesitant at first, as I think it was her first time at something like this, but it didn't even really take "convincing" on our part. We told her the opportunity, told her we thought she was "our girl," gave her the time she needed, prayed and prayed and prayed, and she stepped up to the plate, and is hitting home run after home run after home run with these kids. I love it. She's one of my favorite success stories on raising up the right person for the right ministry opportunity, instead of just filling "the spot" with a warm body... even with 2 and 3 year olds.

So we've been talking about getting her a helper again. Sara, my Preschool Leader, writes up a job description for me. Not just one of your standard "you need to be comfortable with diapers and misdirected pee" job descriptions, but one highlighting the importance of ministering to these kids at this young age, the "setting" into which this helper will be placed (definitely a "helper" spot not a "co-teacher" or anything like that), and we are prepared to share it with the church on Sunday in print and in word.

But Oh, how God flipped this one around on us! I got a reply to a generic email I sent yesterday from Kelley that starts off like this:

"Guess what??????? I have a helper!"

How great is that. We haven't even announced our announcement yet, and God has filled the spot. What I'm loving even more is that he used one of "our recruits" to recruit him! She goes on in a later email:

"He said he had been thinking about it but didn't say anything and he came in Sunday to help me so from then on I was thinking about it and then I talked to him last night. What a PRAISE"

I LOVE that! Part of the back story to this, and really the real reason I wanted to write about this, was because I "threw up a prayer" to God about this very class, and even this very guy, about a week ago. Not a "God, please put it on Josh's heart to step into this or let us convince him" type of prayer, but just a "Hey God, what about this guy?" type of prayer... and it never went beyond that - at least not with me. But behind the scenes, in the realms of heaven, prayer, and the Holy Spirit, i picture it like one of those little chain reaction things where you start off tipping over a little domino, and in the end, a toaster pops out a piece of toast, butters it, and puts in on your plate, ready to enjoy... I don't even know if I was that first domino - I really don't think so or even care - but it's just amazing to see the chain reaction of prayer and trust, even in the little things we throw up to God for him and let him "manage." Even in the prayers we don't take time to consider how well we can put them together. Even in the prayers we aren't even all that serious about.

At last count, there were at least 4 people, plus our new recruit, that were involved in this this past week... some just in prayer, others in writing up job descriptions we'd never need except to highlight God's resourcefulness, and others to encourage, to ask, and to take that final step in bringing the new leader/helper into the fold. I love how this has all worked together, and it's reminding me again about how important, necessary, and wonderful it is to not have to "manage" all of this on our own.

Thanks, Father!

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Sunday School Commissioning - Responsive Reading

by Chet 27. August 2009 08:43

We're having a Sunday School "commissioning" service this Sunday at church as we launch into a new year of reaching, teaching, and ministering to our community. As part of this we're going to bring all the leaders, teachers, and helpers up front, both to be recognized, but more importantly, to be visibly "set apart' by our church to do the work God has called them to. These 35+ people in our church touch lives in ways no other single person could, and I love them all.

We're coming up with a bulletin insert talking about the importance of "commissioning" and a little "responsive reading" to get everyone involved in the service, and I thought I'd post the reading here:

Pastor: Jesus said, “Go and make disciples.” (Matthew 28:19)

SS Workers: We will make disciples, and we will be disciples.

Pastor: Whatever your assignment may be –  leader, teacher, or helper – your ministry is important to our Sunday School.

SS Workers: We believe that we are guides for the blind, and lights for people lost in darkness. We will do our part. (Romans 2:19)

Pastor: No ministry can function with leaders alone. We must ALL participate.

Congregation: We will support our Sunday School workers. We will faithfully and regularly pray for them. Lead us. Equip us.

Adults in Congregation: Create opportunities for us to reach, teach, and minister. We will follow you.

Children and Youth: Teach us truth. Help us learn to follow the Lord.

Pastor: Many barriers could keep you from your work. Fear. Busyness. Distraction. But we believe in you, and trust in the Lord, because with God, all things are possible. (1 Corinthians 10:13, Matthew 19:26)

SS Workers: With God, all things are possible.

Congregation: With God, all things are possible.

Everyone: With God, all things are possible. Amen.

 

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Youth Lesson on Prayer

by Chet 27. July 2009 14:10

PRAYER

  • What is prayer?
    • Talking "to" God?
    • Talking "with" God?
      • Does He talk back?
    • Conversation with God
    • Listening to
  • Is it a two sided "conversation" or a one way street?

PRAISE

  • Is praise always a joyful thing?
  • Ps 145:1-8
    • what is the importance of the words?
    • Do we need to be specific?
  • Ps 88:1-9
    • A song FOR the choir director
    • Heman
    • Never "gets joyful" (ex. V. 18)
  • Why is praise important?
    • Start with recognizing God for who he is
  • Eldridge Quote: "It's not what we do when we're strong and feeling great that makes us holy."

THANKS

  • Focuses on what God HAS DONE. Before we look into the future, we must be able to look confidently at what God has done in the PAST.
  • List stories where God brought Israel "out of" something?
    • Egypt
  • How do / can you keep track of what God has done in your life? Joshua 4:1-9 (pile of rocks on the bank and in the middle of the Jordan)
    • Rank them… Memory, pile of rocks, journal, myspace
  • How important is this "step" (thanks)
  • Psalms 107:1-2

CONFESSION

  • What does it mean to "confess"?
    • "I'm Sorry?"
    • "I did it."
    • Do the words matter?
  • Story of David & Bathsheba, plus the related Psalms (2 Sam. 11:1-5, Psalms 32: 3-5, Ps 51:1-4, 10:12)
  • Forgiveness à Confession è Restoration (is this the right order?)
  • Why do we need to confess if we're already forgiven? (Psalms 51: 16-17)

REVIEW

  • So all of that is review… last week we talked about 3 kinds / parts of prayer
    • A big part of prayer is simply getting us on the right page with God – WHY?
    • coming to understand who HE is, and coming to understand who WE are,
      • both simply as creations
      • but also as people who have been adopted and are now full fledged sons and daughters of God.
    • Is all of that introduction to just getting around to the asking, then?
      • NO.

SUPPLICATION – THE PRAYER OF INTERVENTION

  • What does "supplication" mean?
    • "intercession"
  • Why is "getting things done" listed last here?
    • Psalm 55:16-18, 22
  • "I prayed about it, and God said "no""
    • Closed doors?
    • Do we / should we just accept that?
  • Persistant Prayer – can we "change God's mind?"
    • Moses – Sodom and Gomorrah
    • JC @ Transfiguration
  • YouTube clip - David
  • Is prayer just going to God "for help?"
    • Or getting our marching orders?
      • Are you "on task?"
      • What is that?
  • What's the "biggest" thing you've ever prayed for?
    • Are there things you'd love to see happen but are just not comfortable taking it to God?
      • Like what? Why?
    • Is it a lack of faith?
    • Where IS the power? Is it in our faith, or in the power of what is behind our faith?
      • How much faith does it take to move a mountain?
      • Not really all that much… "faith of a mustard seed" Matt 17:20
      • The power is not in the FAITH… the POWER is in what that faith is placed into… He's just waiting for us to ask!
      • What holds us back then?
    • How big of something would you like to start praying for? Can you believe it could happen? Could it be YOU holding it all back?
      • Change the weather?
    • So, just WHAT IS FAITH?
      • Is it believing something to be true?
      • Is it where salvation comes from?
        • "For BY GRACE you are saved through faith, not of yourselves, it is a GIFT OF GOD" eph 2:8-9
        • Mark 2:5 – 4 guys faith gets 1 guy saved?
        • Were people like Abraham "saved" because of their faith, even in the OT? Gen 15:6, Gal 3:6 (Abraham)
      • So is faith and belief the same thing?
        • "confess with your mouth… believe….you will be saved." Is that all there is to it?
        • Can you believe something without having faith in it?
        • Salvation = gift. Faith = accepting it is for me and opening it.
        • Plane won't crash but I won't get on it.

IF GOD ALREADY KNOWS EVERYTHING, WHY PRAY? … GOD WANTS YOU TO DEPEND ON HIM AND TALK TO HIM.

  • What are some of the reasons God doesn't answer prayer right away?
    • Yes, No, Wait
    • "I want you to TALK TO ME."
    • Spiritual Warfare - Daniel
  • If God already knows everything, why do we even need to tell Him what we want?
    • Is prayer giving God new information?
    • How does this correspond with the way we go about our own prayers when we pray for "lists?"
      • "be with all the people on our prayer list."
      • Do we really, really, care?
      • Does prayer move God to action? Does it move US to action?

GOD KNOWS EVERYTHING

  • What does it mean when we say that "God knows everything?"
    • Do we even have a say in the matter?
    • Or are we little robots?
    • "Freedom of causality" ß how it works here is impossible to totally understand, but that does not make it any less true.
    • When I am asked something I don't know at work, I often respond, "let me ask Google… Google knows everything." How is all the information that GOOGLE knows different from all the information that GOD "knows?"

WE DON'T KNOW EVERYTHING

  • Where do you get your guidance from?
    • Trial and error?
    • Friends?
    • Parents?
    • Church?
    • God Himself?
  • Does God WANT to see us come to understand?``
    • James 1:5 – if anyone lacks wisdom, ask of God, and he gives generously.
    • Solomon
  • Is there a difference between knowledge and wisdom?
    • Compare…. Faith is putting belief into action. (believe + CONFESS) ß confess is where we put legs on our beliefs. WORDS MATTER.
    • Wisdom is putting knowledge into action.

GOD WANTS YOU TO TALK TO HIM

  • Jer 33:3 "CALL TO ME"
  • Third Day – Call My Name… I want you to "never doubt."
  • God wants us to be confident in him. He wants us to trust him. He wants us to really "cast our cares on him."
  • Do we really trust God? Do we talk to him about things as deep as we talk to our best friends? Do we let him talk back?

WRAP IT UP

  • Have you ever asked God what to pray for before you even start praying?
  • The Bible is not a book of exceptions. It is a book of examples.
    • James 5:13-20… Elijah was a man, "just like us."
    • There is POWER in the words of your prayers. If you feel like it's a waste of time, maybe it is.
      • But it's not because PRAYER is a waste of time, but perhaps the way you're going about it…
      • Maybe you're praying for something outside of your realm.
      • God has something, somebody for you to influence. For you to AFFECT CHANGE on. Do you know what it is? It may be small… there's nothing wrong with that.
  • Prayer is an expression of a RELATIONSHIP between you and God.
    • If it's not close, it will be awkward.
    • It can be shallow, it can be intimate. It can be enjoyable, it can be painfully awful.

 

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Church

Sunday School Vision

by Chet 16. June 2009 14:30

My vision for Sunday School... for my local church involvement of any sort, for that matter...

"From Christian Clubhouse to Kingdom Outpost"

I am starting to see this... and someone on DAB gave me this quote today:

"Some wish to live within the sound of Church or Chapel bell;
I want to run a Rescue Shop within a yard of hell."

- C.T. Studd.

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